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Care and Notice

A few weeks ago when my mom spoke at Reverb, she threw out a free good thoughts for couples that I’d like to share with you: these apply to the men, but I’m sure there is a flip-side for the ladies. Two big things stuck out:
1. Men- with women, sometimes the feeling is bigger than the issue. Don’t shut down her emotions. Let her feel.
2. A woman once got all dolled up for a date with her husband. She did her nails, curled her hair, put on makeup and her best jewelry, picked it her most attractive outfit…and the husband didn’t say a word. But when they arrived at the restaurant, he quickly got out and took the time to re-adjust the hood emblem on his car.
The moral of the story: Take the time to notice her. Tell her she looks beautiful within 5 seconds of seeing her and you’ll probably never go wrong.
For women, I’d say… 1. Let him think. 2. Change ‘beautiful’ to ’studly’!
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March 31st, 2009 at 6:51 am
Yes! Encouraging us with words like that is HUGE! Especially for us who have the love language of ‘words of encouragement.’